Kissing Story: "Erogenous Kissing "

I still remember the first meaningful kissing experience I had. I had a reputation when I was 6 years old of chasing the girls and kissing them, and even now looking back on it brings a chuckle and a reminiscent smile to my face. I quickly outgrew the girl chasing, and remember always being mezmerized by the powerful kisses I witnessed in the movies, and wondered how I would feel when I finally found myself in those circumstances.

Going to a single-sex high school, I guess the opportunities for spending time with girls were few and far between, so in that respect I was a late bloomer. However when I got to my final year that all changed. I was part of a festival of Shakespeare, in which we were performing an excerpt from Antony and Cleopatra. I was rather unfortunately cast as a eunuch, much to the hilarity of the other members of the cast, however I spent a lot of time with the lead character who played Cleopatra.

She was beautiful, funny, and refined. She was everything I found attractive in a woman. A couple of weeks later we were at a party together and we had the opportunity to talk. We had been flirting for weeks, and after a few glasses of wine we kissed. I kissed the soft skin of her lips, the soft skin of her eyelids, the soft skin behind her ear, and the soft skin in the nape of her neck. She melted. Quite unlike kisses from other boys, the moment we shared was sensual and erotic, passionate while at the same time tender. It was a moment that neither of us will ever forget.

I was told later by a friend that I was a very sensual kisser. To me, getting a reaction from the person I was kissing would indicate the feeling I had for them in that moment, and it was important that it was expressed with all the emotion I could convey. I finally understood the power of a kiss, and it didn't have to be on the lips. There are a number of erogenous zones around the face and neck that can transform a kiss from satisfactory to one that is truly memorable, a moment in time when powerful feelings were shared and exchanged and both of us felt immersed in our emotions. The power of touch in that moment was truly electric.

So next time you are in the moment, consider how you can express your feelings by kissing and touching other parts of your partner's face. Put some thought into it. Allow it to have some meaning. And make your moment both sensual and erotic.

It may be a special moment you recall forever!

This week's article is a very special story from Andrew Rusbatch, co-author of "Save My Marriage Today", who shares with us a very special kissing experience.