Make Her Tingle

You know, everyone gets bored when they do the same thing over and over again. If you think that a kissing session is nothing more than pressing your lips against hers, you've got a wonderful discovery ahead of you.

The point of kissing is to develop a sense of intimacy and deep connection with your partner. It's not merely about physical pleasure and foreplay!

While you may be focused on physical things you can do to make her "tingle in her toes," be aware that a great make-out session involves much more than that.

Here's one thing that you can do to heighten the excitement when you're kissing. Tantalize her by using the temptation of separation.

Passion builds when two people are tantalizingly close, yet still apart. Think about the greatest love affairs of history and legend. Romeo and Juliet. Helen of Troy. Rama and Sita. They're all characterized by the agony of lovers being separated, a state which paradoxically heightens their desire to be together.

You can artificially create that kind of anticipation and need caused by taking "breaks" while you're kissing.

When you are kissing her, break away every so often. Even though you may want more, force yourself to drop your hands and back away. Instead of touching, gaze into her eyes. Ask her how she is feeling. Tell her how you're feeling. (Women love to connect on an emotional level, so sharing your feelings will be a great step towards developing a deeper connection.) Tell her how much you want to touch her.

As your bodies are so close yet not touching, your awareness will be heightened. You will feel tortured by being so close to your object of desire without being able to do anything at all.

Next, allow yourself to touch her hand. Stroke her palm, run your fingertips lightly along each of her fingers. Focus all your attention on her hand, so that she knows that you're not going to kiss her.

Then, direct your attention to her arms. Focus the same amount of attention to her arms as you did to her hands. Then focus on her shoulders. Massage them and kiss them.

By this time, she should be squirming in anticipation as you move to her neck. Only after you've lightly kissed the hollow of her throat and massaged the back of her neck up to the base of the head can you allow yourself to finally kiss her lips.

The key to successfully using this technique is (1) focus all your attention on the body part in question, and (2) keep your touch gentle, soothing, and exploratory. You will want to avoid any jerking movements or jumping too fast from one body part to the next.

Good luck!

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