Analyzing A Relationship. Then Deciding Whether It's Worth Staying Or Going.

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If You really look at any relationship whether its yours or a friends there are always signs to indicate whether you should stay or go. however these signs sometimes we fail to recognize or if we recognize them we look pass them because we claim we are in love. sometimes we as individuals need to understand that if you love someone that much you should love them enough to go. however how we can we tell that a relationship is worth staying in or what we as women really need.

firstly we request undivided attention and we if we dont get it we continue to nagg and nagg day after day night after night but do we make the situation worst by doing that. pictures this situation in your mind there is a female and male they have been together for about four months firstly they were never friends and from the first day they met they decided to be girlfriend and boyfriend. nonetheless later on in life she realized that he want to be sexally with her but she relented. within weeks of their relationship they became intimate and a sudden passion started to be created. Then she realize that started to grow distant seldom phone calls or seeing each other but she comprised because she understood he works late hours. Now she has come to realise he is not who she wants to be with someone who doesnt spend holidays together or seldom says i love you words we as women love to hear. she has come to realise that he will forever have a dont care attitude but she is left with the decision to stay or to leave.

ladies if you see your guy that you claim to love does not say the words i love you leave. if he doesnt make the time to see you at least twice a week or even call you leave. If he cant make the time to spend special holidays with you such as valentines day then leave. It's not worthed being in a relationship where you will forever be unhappy. it is not worthed to love someone and appreciate someone who would do the same in return. its not worth being with a man who refuses to treat you with utter most respect or like the queen you deserve to be treated as. what's the point going on living in a lie when people ask how is the relatiohship and does he treat right your response is always a lie. yes leaving is the hardest thing to do and we often know why we want to leave but if your partner refuses to comprise or make some way towards change move on because there is too many men in the world who would meet your needs and more than to be hurting your head over the one who aint hurting his head over you.

there is no assurance when it comes to love and there is no such thing as equal love because one partner will always love and show love more than the other. love is a two way process and it does not take one individual to make a relationship work it takes two are comitted to loving each other.lastly know one knows the real situation only you and only you know what you want and have the power to make that decision.

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