To Christian Husbands That Are Frustrated With Their Sex Life

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Dear fellow Christian Husband,

If you give me just a few moments, I will show you how, starting tonight, the sex in your marriage can become everything that you secretly wish it could be.

You are no different from the thousands of other "average" Christian men that have seen their married sex lives go from "okay" to "oh my!"

And, like them, in just a few short days from now, you will find it hard to believe how frequent, enjoyable and fun your sex life has become.

Sex will, finally, be an intensely pleasurable, soul bonding experience between you and your wife.

Both of you will be physically, emotionally and spiritually satisfied...yet, you will both be more energized, inspired and more "in love" than ever before.

Very soon, you will notice that, more often than ever before, your wife is the one that initiates sex. And, in bed, she begins to display a sensuousness and passion that you weren't sure she even possessed.

Your relationship, outside the bedroom is completely different, as well. It is as if there is a new "electricity" between the two of you...an attraction that draws you closer all day long.

When either of you discuss your sex life (or even think about it) you find that you can't help smiling to yourselves.

Suddenly, many of the other frustrations and details of "every day life" don't seem to be such a "big deal."

The only thing standing between you and an amazing sex life is a little knowledge and some practice.

How do I know that?

Because I know how frustrating a poor sex life can be. For many years, the sex in my Christian marriage was far less than exciting or fulfilling.

My name is Robert Irwin.

And, until a few years ago...

I struggled to perform sexually.

My wife had never had an orgasm during intercourse.

Although, she was always "willing" to participate, I couldn't shake the feeling that she was only doing it for me - she was not truly that interested in sex.

We frequently found ourselves "stressed out" or upset after sex-instead of happy and content.

Many nights, I went to bed feeling as if I had failed somehow as a husband...and as a man.

Although I was a loving husband, father and a good provider, my inability to please my wife, sexually, caused me secret shame and fear about the long-term viability of our marriage.

I just could not understand how the sex in my marriage had become something negative and "relationship-hurting" instead of positive and "relationship-building."

So, after almost thirteen years of marriage, at the age of 39, I decided to do something about my frustration. I spent an entire year learning how to make my married sex life everything that I had ever hoped it would be.

This was difficult, at first, because, as you probably know, there are few good sexual resources for Christians. Secular resources don't factor God into the mix. Most Christian resources avoid the specifics or details that are necessary to truly experience great sex.

Although I want to have an amazing married sex life, I also want to please both my Wife and God.

I needed a resource that didn't treat sex simply as a bodily function. I needed a resource that was, in no way, pornographic or disrespectful. I needed a resource that was based upon scientific facts, but was, more importantly, based upon Scripture. Basically, I needed a sexual resource that didn't exist.

My sexual "mission" led me to a year-long journey of sexual research and experimentation. During this year, I collected and devoured everything and anything I could find on the topic of sexual performance and pleasure.

First, I did a study of the Bible to find and reflect on every single Scripture that had anything to do with sex.

And, you know what I found?

Sex was God’s idea. He created it and encourages us to participate in it, frequently, enthusiastically and without shame.

C.S. Lewis said it best...


“Christianity is almost the only one of the great religions which thoroughly approves of the body - which believes that matter is good, that God Himself once took on a human body, that some kind of body is going to be given to us even in Heaven and is going to be an essential part of our happiness, our beauty, and our energy…


...Christianity has glorified marriage more than any other religion: and nearly all the greatest love poetry in the world has been produced by Christians. If anyone says that sex, in itself, is bad, Christianity contradicts him at once…”


Christians have a bad reputation when it comes to sex and sexuality.

Within popular culture, Christians are portrayed as either sexually repressed or sexually deviant hypocrites.

This is predictable- Jesus told us that the World would not understand us (actually, He said it would hate us) because of Him.

So, this wouldn’t be a problem, if we did not (unconsciously or consciously) accept these false ideas, as well.

Instead, we need to study God's Word to discover the truth about God's intentions for us, sexually...

God created sex and is pleased with our participation and pleasure...

In Proverbs 5:18-19, the loving father tells his son, “Let your fountain [your reproductive organs] be blessed, and rejoice [or sexually enjoy] the wife or your youth…let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love.”


In Mark 10:6-9, Jesus endorses the marital sexual union. He says, “But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife; and [the two] shall be one flesh.”


In Hebrews 13:4, it states, “Marriage is honorable in all and the marriage bed undefiled.”


We must never make the mistake of comparing God’s good, pure, and wonderful, gift of marital sex with the pale and twisted representations of sex and sexuality that we are presented by the World.

This is not just to avoid sin. It is to give us the freedom and gratitude to participate in sex as God intended.

I also learned...

What the Bible says to those men that are struggling in, essentially, sexless marriages.

The secrets to making your wife desire sex more frequently.

What the Bible says about anal and oral sex.

The surprising fact about masturbation that most Christians (including Pastors) don't know.

Then, I reviewed all of the latest scientific research in the areas of sexual performance, pleasure and satisfaction...

Although I included both Christian and non-Christian sources, I was particularly interested in learning only those techniques that would in no way conflict with my desires to please my wife and God.

Over the course of that year, my wife and I tried every technique, product and device that looked like it had the potential to increase our pleasure. Bless my wife. She was very patient during that year.

And I discovered that (even as a middle-aged, out-of-shape guy) it is possible to...

Avoid premature ejaculation.

Maintain your erections, indefinitely and make love to your wife for as long as you and your wife desire.

Increase the intensity and duration of your orgasms

Become a multi-orgasmic male.

Experience a type of orgasm that many men say is different and more intense than any other.


Discover the pleasure benefits of "the male G Spot" - you can find and utilize this little-known pleasure trigger to create mind- blowing pleasure for yourself.

Find and stimulate your wife's G Spot


Become very skilled at oral sex


Discover your wife's deepest sexual needs and desires and then fulfill them.

My research helped us to experience sexual pleasure that I hadn't even realized was possible.


For the first time, my wife had an orgasm during intercourse. She was so overcome with pleasure that she wept with joy...


She told me that she had never imagined that pleasure could be so... overwhelming.


And, this was just the beginning. The more we applied what I had learned, the more we experienced sex as a positive, exciting and mutually-bonding event.


Our married sex life is now beyond any expectation that we may have had...and so can yours.


Our joy with the benefits of our amazing sexual relationship led us to start to share our discoveries with our friends, family and church groups.

About the Author

Try the secrets in Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband-Risk Free! I was so convinced that these secrets could dramatically improve other Christian marriages that I had to share what I had discovered.

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