The Hot/Cold Kiss

Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.

• Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
• Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
• Get a cold drink and put some in your mouth.
• Your partner gets a hot drink and puts some in his/her mouth.
• In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
• Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
• Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
• If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.