10 Signs You Are Getting Dumped

Is your relationship on the rocks? Having some trouble decoding those hidden messages your partner is giving you. Here are 10 signs you are on your way out the door. We hate to be the ones to break it to you, but somebody had to do it.

1. Your significant other's (SO) friends start acting distant towards you. If there is a sudden change in their attitude towards you then that is a pretty good clue they know something you don't know.

2. Your SO doesn't listen to you. And, when I say doesn't listen you, I really mean hardly ever listens to you(everyone has days when they aren't the best listeners). Generally, this becomes clear when you are trying to remind them of what you said and they have no idea what you are talking about.

3. Your SO is suddenly busy all of the time. If they truly cared they would be making time for you!

4. Lies, even small ones. Oftentimes this means they are starting a web of lies to cover up the one thing the do not want you to know about.

5. Your SO keeps you waiting. It doesn't even matter in what sense. From decisions on plans, to running late for a date, to not calling when they said they would.

6. A good old pat on the pack. According to many behavioral psychologist a pat on the back during a hug is a sign of uneasiness.

7. Your SO picking silly fights. Like you putting the seat down again or chewing your gum to loud. Picking minor fights is a sign of emotional distress in a relationship.

8. Your SO avoids talking about the future, even the immediate future, like plans for next Tuesday.

9. There is a dramatic change in your SO's sexual behavior. While it could be a sign of outside stress, more often than not it is a sign you are about to get the old heave ho.

10. Any sentence starting with "we need to talk" or "it's not you its me" pretty much means you should be packing the suitcase and moving on.

This list is not all inclusive, but it will hopefully help you decode some mysterious behavior.

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James Ayer is a contributing writer at http://www.freelovemd.com. A free relationship advice website. Stop by and check out articles and discussion on love, dating, and your relationship.