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What Will Others Say about You When You Are Gone?
It is never too late to write a better script for your relationship.
You may be afraid to ask the other person
in your relationship the above question. You may not be
afforded the chance to change the perceptions of some of the people
you have hurt in your life; maybe they refuse to forgive your
actions. This does not mean that you cannot use your unique
qualities to benefit other people.
Picture yourself giving a part of
you to another person and the reaction of the other person. In
your meditation, visualize that you gave to this other person without
condition - other than your seeing his positive response.
Imagine how this person would interact with others in your
absence. Visualize that he was uplifted by your contact and is
now able to use his own attributes to benefit someone else. Many
people who lack spirituality do not believe that they can make a
difference in another person´s life; they do not understand how
this can spread out to positively impact many other people. Your
negative or positive actions toward another person can stay
embedded in that person´s memory for the rest of his life. Do you
remember who picked on you as a child? Do you remember an
act of kindness by someone when you were a child? Are you
beginning to see how important your actions are to the other people
in your life?
Copyright 2002 Jay Krunszyinsky
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